Sorry Halevi, in case you’re serious. I wasn’t trying to be vague, and I did manage to get the gist of my post through this year.
All I’m asking is whether anybody knows of Mikvaos closed Nittel night – let alone 4 nights as Sam implied earlier in this thread. No need to explore the “banned” part of my post.
Once that’s settled we can continue talking about Shidduchim – and affording to be married – which is the topic weighing so heavily on our collective minds.