Golfer: Thank you for trying to suggest shidduchim!
When someone calls me asks me for a resume and some questions, suggests it to the guy and then they don’t hear anything from him- I appreciate it when the person calls me back and tells me that they forwarded the resume and the answers to the questions and that they haven’t heard back, but will let me know as soon as they do.
It’s a nice thing to do so that the single knows where things are at. The person suggesting the shidduch can’t be responsible for the behavior of the guy, but they can be transparent, and communicate that they did indeed forward the info to the guy (and didn’t forget about it) so that the single isn’t left wondering.
This also leaves the person making the suggestion looking good, instead of leaving the single wondering if the person making the suggestion was just fishing, was insincere, changed their mind, etc.