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woh AZ now ur getting judgemental. Not ‘everyone’ has that perception. Occasionally it actually is true too. And there’s nothing ‘fishy’ about not having dated in 6 months. There still are less singles in that age group than 19 year olds, and its true that older singles for that reason are sometimes overlooked. They may not be being redt what they are looking for. There might not be enough people who know what they’re looking for to redt them shidduchim. There may be less girls looking for someone still learning at that age. I’d be completely surprised if a 29 year old who’s been dating for 6 years got 2 dates a week, simply because those who know him have likely suggested those they thought appropriate already, and have no new names to suggest. Yes, thats where my opinion of getting your name out comes from. Though after bad dating experiences, some singles are only open to hearing suggestions from those who know them. Dont accuse the single boys because he gets less dates. Thats not so fair.