At what cost you ask. Maybe at a cost of less heartache for all the young people, their parents, and family who are stranded in the shidduch crisis.
That’s not cost, that’s benefit. You say it outweighs the cost? Fine, valid opinion, but acknowledge the cost.
I know young men who are unbelievably immature at a time when other young men are already husbands and fathers.
Marriage matures. Agreed, but isn’t there a minimum starting maturity needed?
If the expectations change, the people will change with them.
Again, agreed, but would you say if the expectation was to marry at 14 years old, they would be mature at 14?
You also never addressed the years of lost learning.