to cv yes the town was meant and will forever be run around bmg the traffic the hours of stores etc. and kal vchomer when it comes to yeshivas and schools.
like someone told me – in places outside lakewood where the problem is just as big if not biger because lakewood is THE ONLY PLACE that has a vaad setup to take care of these kids – the yeshivish send to one school (basicly) and the less yeshivish to another… as opposed to lakewood where everybody hangs out and davens and shops in the same few places … so they assume that because the area code on their house phone 732 they should get into school with kids who’s mother and father are moiser nefesh in 2016 to bring their kids up in the most sheltered way they could imagine (obviously there is no fool proof way but…)
and to flatbush agent … lakewood as frum as it is or as you claim it became …the styles and rat race for any kind gashmius has manifested and grown into the most yeshivish of families whether it be a 500+ dollar carriage or cars that for some reason “have to be decent” ending up newer cars then any yeshiva man ten years ago would never have dreamed of.
talk about frum i cant because there is way too mush l”h.
to stop the hate you sound like you live on the hilltops in israel where “love for everyone” is their motto and what your saying sounds like a fairy tale but lmaase look in the rambam hilchos dais about the dangers of getting mushpa from people with bad influences.