“….who’s mother and father are moiser nefesh in 2016 to bring their kids up in the most sheltered way they could imagine “
Sounds like they also want to be moiser the nefesh of the kids they don’t want accepted into the schools.
yeru613, I think a major point of contention is that you are assuming its justified to reject a child and afflict suffering on him and his family to protect your children from another child who is less sheltered.
Alot of ppl flat out think that position is wrong.
That is assuming that the parents are sincerely concerned about the ruchnius of their children.
A more cynical person would question whether the parents are sincere or they just feel its pos nisht for their kids to be in school with a certain type of kid.