Don’t worry about elitism.
Elitism is fine.
As long as everybody realizes that my children are The Elite.
Maybe George Orwell, (perhaps) a more proficient writer than me, put it better-
“All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others.”
And George Orwell never even visited Lakewood.
I happen to agree with Mr Rechnitz that Lakewood is a great place. Though I’m sure he knows much more about it than I do. Problems arise when human nature, there as anywhere else, raises its (sometimes ugly) head. And we have to work together to rise above it.