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No – there probably is nothing you can do. It is the sad fate of some guys to stay single forever dreaming about the beautiful girl they wish they could find. It’s very sad and unfair. But it has a very real upside. The girl in your dreams will remain stunning forever whereas if you were to find her in the flesh and marry her, the experience would be quite a temporary one as stunning dissipates with time. Oh, there actually is one thing you can do. If you’re not rich, work on getting fabulously wealthy very quickly, as it is a universal truth that a rich guy can always buy himself a pretty girl. (Just make sure that Mom and Grandma are also reasonably attractive for their age so you get an idea of the staying power of her looks. Or, when the time comes, you can trade her in for an upgrade.) My heart goes out to you.