Reply To: Looks in shidduchim

I don’t knOw what that means to lower my standards. It’s ridiculous to marry someone you don’t find attractive. I was attracted to one or two of the people I dated but it didn’t work out for other reasons. You can’t decide to be attracted to someone who isn’t attractive to you. It’s not number anything on my list. It’s a basic aspect of dating that has to be there regardless of how you place it on your little list.