I dated something along the lines of 30 girls before finding my wife. I don’t think there were more than 3 or 4 I didn’t find attractive. And I’m not some guy who spent the first 22 years of his life not looking up from my Gemara. I went on vacations, I watched movies R”L, and I would look people in the face when talking to them.
I find it very difficult to believe that anyone can have no luck finding attractive frum girls. It’s clearly a problem with yourself that due to some childhood stress, you’re only attracted to girls who look like Barbie. And a further undiagnosed issue is that you don’t even realize it.
But I’ll tell you what, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt. Under one condition: any girl you go out with has to have seen your picture first and decide yes or no before you see what she looks like.