wolf
you write “Then don’t invite any non-Jews to your wedding.”
isn’t the point of posting here to voice OUR opinions? it doesn’t make much sense to say “Then don’t invite etc.”
Fair enough. You’re entitled to your opinion as much as I am entitled to mine.
as far as the cost of the wedding, your comment again doesn’t make much sense, this isn’t about what we can or can’t afford. or what we should be spending. the average goy that goes to a heimish wedding and sees the band, the hall, clothing, jewelry, etc… will come out with a certain notion, which isn’t necessary
Why do you assume that our weddings are any more or less fancy than non-Jewish weddings?
“it adds simcha to the choson and kalla”
i don’t think the father inviting his friends or co-workers adds anything to the choson and kalla. we’re not talking about the babysitter that’s been with the family for 30 years.
Who said anything about the father inviting friends? When Eeees and I got married, some of the non-Jews who attended were *our* friends, and yes, it did contribute greatly to our simcha.
you’re getting old,
I don’t see why my age is relevant.
all your points on this one were way off,
No they weren’t… they were quite to the point.
not sure if you just wanted to argue and didn’t have any good points, or you didn’t sleep well last night.
I slept quite well… thank you for your concern.
on a side note I’m sure you’re a great guy,
Oooooh… a backhanded compliment.
but you should find a rav and get really close to him. most of your hashkafa is way off.
Pray tell… in what ways are my hashkafos “way off.”
The Wolf