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I never give Tochacha.
The times I did so in the past have been disastrous and I always felt terrible about it afterwards.
No one listens to me anyway.
I don’t hold myself to be better than anyone that I’m worthy to give Tochacah.
I don’t reach out to people to be friendly – so I’m going to reach out to them to rebuke them?
I find it difficult to correct people on matters where I’m 100% that I’m right and involve no question of moral standing; so I’m certainly going to find it all the more difficult to correct people in areas where I am not 100% certain of my correctness and that involve a moral standing.
Yeah, I know you’re going to tell me that I’m doing wrong. Go ahead…
The Wolf