Which part of “madda” is related to not covering hair?
Which part of “modern” is related to eating milchig and pareve at non-kosher restaurants (yitayningwut’s expertise aside)?
Which of the Rav zt”l’s (or Rabbi Lamm’s, or Rav Lichtenstein zt”l’s) teachings relate to “not being shomer” (as if its a choice)?
So? Which part of being chareidi says you should molest kids, or steal, or say lashon hara, or make fun of people on the internet?