mischiefmaker, I personally know of several stories that worked through this. Say it every day and IY”H you will see positive results.
p_b_a, I’m almost sure there was an old thread that discussed this. The idea is basically that you are emotionally involved in your situation = you want to do something about it = sign up. Since you know what it feels like to deal with this certain thing, you will do whatever Davening you can for someone else who is in the same situation.