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April 29, 2009 1:52 am at 1:52 am
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tzippi
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One big problem with pushing off learning in E”Y till after one’s chasunah is the practically 100% necessity of support. Even if a boy marries an older girl who is established in her field, the likelihood of her being able to immediately start working in E”Y without investing time and retraining is not so great.
Any “solution” that will require parental financial support is CONTRIBUTING to the shidduch crisis, not ameliorating it.
And I won’t even bring up that Yated letter that mentioned the personal angles so eloquently.