My computer was down. Don’t think I’ve finally seen the light, AZ. You mention that as long as the boys have this leverage, yeah, they’ll look for money.
Not my boys. They will look for the girl who will help them build a bayis neeman. First and foremost. They will not take money from their younger siblings in laws yeshivos, prevent the younger children from going to camp, etc., things which happen. The types of girls they want may not come from families with parents who can put xxx xxx dollars in the bank to guarantee the nadan, should the wife becomes indisposed. I don’t know what that will mean l’maaseh, we’re a couple of years away. I think it means that my sons will probably be older than the mean when they think they can assume this responsibility, not younger.