I understand that some want to close the age gap in shidduchim and have girls start dating later , but so many times girls are seriously ready for marriage at 18 and 19. Why should they have to wait till 21 to start dating, when by then they will be cosidered older and they will be part of the shidduch crisis. Personaly I know so many young girls that are ready to get married, and even though i understand the shidduch crisis why should they have to wait. If Hashem wants them to get married young they will. And its important to remember Hakadosh Boruch Hu Mizaveg Es Zivugim, so ultimatley I think girls can start dating at any age if they are mature because its all up to Hashem. But its important not to rush someone into a marriage that their not ready for-for both boys and girls, but when they are mature enough and ready to decide on their own(with guidance if needed) to start dating at whatever age it is then they should.
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