mox: it was anonymiss who suggested the 10% of boys go off the derech although there wasn’t any basis for the suggestion.
Just smile:
No one is advocating that boys begin dating before they are ready. what is being advocated is
A. At whatever point a boy begins to date he should be encouraged to date a girl his own age.
B. As it stands now many boys do NOT begin dating based on when they are ready but rather when the system allows for it. That artificial delay is harmful. Without it boys will truly begin when each and every one is ready as a individual. Some will be earlier and some will be later.