Would you consider dating a Jew who was 6’11” or 4’9″ or a redhead or Buckharian or Moroccan or an out-of-towner or a city slicker or weighs 295 lb. regardless of their middos and frumkeit?
Would it matter to you how they were Jewish, i.e. a Satmar chosid, Modern Orthodox, Lubavitch, Brisk?
Would it make no difference to you whether you marry someone FFB versus a BT?