“Hence people trying to defend them. Do you care about these mitsvos?
(Again, I believe you are no Ger.)”
You can’t get around the mitzvah by dismissing any ger who’s opinions you don’t like. Why don’t you think I am (other than thinking I’m a Joseph alt which can easily be disproved with a couple of clicks)? Is it because I’m not as easily offended by people’s marriage choices as you would like me to be?
This is like when the liberals fought tooth and nail over the Redskins team name thing, but when they found out that actual Native Americans didn’t care, they were disappointed.