So regarding race it remains a question, what to do when the parents or the community in general wants to preserve the color and texture of their offspring the same way as it has been for hundreds of years (in this case the color happens to be white) but that excludes others from the shidduch market?
I think the answer is for such people of color to find a community with people like them already in it- then it will be easy to find a shidduch and feel comfortable. It does not only apply to people of color but all sorts of people. Just like BTs might feel more comfortable being part of a community with many BTs and a Rov who is a BT.