Popa
You are not the first person Ive heard this “distinction” between a prenup and kesuba from.
Why is “distinction” in quotes? You seriously see little distinction between the two?
all we are doing is preparing for an Aino Mesaerv L’din
That isn’t an accurate portrayal of the prenup. It affects and binds people who are not Aino Mesaerv L’din into making payments where normative halacha doesn’t require it and where normative halacha permits him to choose not to grant a requested divorce.
they can and should give in to all of the husbands demands to get their Get
This isn’t the objection. The objection is that he has the halachic and moral right to choose to continue the marriage.
The reason he can’t say that is because it isn’t politically correct?
They have said it.