Darchei sends you a receipt of what you pay for the dinner, they don’t deduct their cost so I don’t see a reason why I should, especially since I don’t know the cost
Interesting, because my Yeshiva does state the cost for the meal on the receipt. Perhaps Darchei is different in that the dinner is in the Yeshiva, so there is no set “cost” that they can assign to the dinner?
shtusim – No disagreement here. Just to add something that struck me recently, in the Yated Chunich Forum. The parent wants to take the sons out of Yeshiva to visit his mother (the children’s grandmother) for Mother’s day (or Father’s day, I forget), but thinks the Yeshiva won’t let, so he lied and said they had a doctor appointment.
Rabbi Bender’s response: You should have told the truth, and if the Yeshiva said they are not allowed to leave, take them out anyway and find your children a new Yeshiva, as obviously the Yeshiva is not teaching your children good Middos.
Awesome!!