In most districts if you dont want to send your special ed kid to public school you have to hire a lawyer and fight and they usually fight back (NYC even hires high priced lawyers for Rich Manhattanites who think their special Ed kid needs a $75,000 school). But generally the people who fight for teh bored of Ed are Hostile to yeshiva idea. So while you can win, its harder. in East Ramapo, they did not fight and just gave the parents whatever they wanted which costed more money.
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