let’s forget the torah for one second (i heard those gasps)
no industry, organization, house, corporation, politics, etc..
can run with 2 bosses. that’s why there is always a president and vice president.
i won’t get into male is better than female, even if you feel the female should be the boss, that’s OK! but it can’t and won’t work when 2 ppl think they’re equal.
hence the high divorce rate.