Kasha,
You never answered my question from yesterday.
You brought the S”A & Rambam which lists tasks a wife does for her husband. You made the point that she *must* do these tasks. That being the case, please answer the questions I asked yesterday — specifically:
So, are you going to force your wife to wash your face, arms and legs even when she doesn’t want to?
Does your wife pour every cup you drink (when she’s present and not a nidda, of course)?
Does your wife stand around to wait on you?
The Wolf