wolfishmusings
Force? G-d forbid! My wife does it WILLINGLY and HAPPILY. Just like I don’t have to “force” her to keep Shabbos, I don’t have to even ask her to do the things mentioned.
Yes, she does it on her own initiative. So the answers to your questions are yes, yes, and yes. (Without any compulsion.)
Yes, I know we’ve been in golus so long you and some others may find it astounding that *gasp* some people still keep our halachas as brought down in the meforshim. But believe you me, I am far from lonely here. Welcome to the Torah world!