missme, I for one would not make a revolution nor go off the derech. There are numerous ossurim Rabbonim have made in our current times that our parents were never restricted of.
In fact a lot of people are complaining that are becoming at risk kids because they are too restricted.
I think you are being very judgemental on a large part of the frum women who are modest, refined and live halachically proper lives.
Take me for instance. I gave up a career to be a stay at home mom (granted today I’ve been playing a hookey and ran to the computor whenever I got a chance) but being a stay at home mom is very boring for me. Are you going to judge me because I sometimes go to the mall to air ?