i was simply crying (im not sure decrying is the right word), in general, for the depths our generation has fallen. not asking shailas, practicing halacha differently than and not complying with your husband are just some examples.
First you decry people for not asking shailos. Then you decry the fact that SJS *asked a shaila* and got an answer (i.e. that she could have a different practice than her husband).
The Wolf