it is ridiculous that if her husbands rov holds carrying in flatbush is mechallel shabbos (which is skillah) that she then carries.
I don’t use the eruv, but I don’t consider those who do to be mechallelei Shabbos. Why do you assume SJS’s rav holds that way?
once married she goes by the husband.
Obviously, her rav found a reason to say not to. Do you know the reasoning for his p’sak?
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