“i was simply crying (im not sure decrying is the right word), in general, for the depths our generation has fallen. not asking shailas, practicing halacha differently than and not complying with your husband are just some examples. “
missme who’s not asking shaalos? You problably meant to say, the shaaloh that you asked someone to ask.
Praticing halacha differently than what? If you mean being ruled by the husband in all aspects then;
Are you supposed to comply with her husbands wishes if what he says is not the correct thing to do? That’s the only way that one can say a husband rules over her in all aspects.
“HUH?? I NEVER heard of a so-called “minhug” of following their husband’s directive less. where do you hear of such nonexistent so-called ‘minugim’?? it is not right to make up a ‘minhug’ to justify something that is being done wrong. you really need to ask a shaila and not be afraid to hear what you rov will pasken. “
I never said it’s a minhug not to follow whatever your husband tells you even if you feel it’s wrong to do or you have a different opinion. I said that that is how some women today conduct themselves today. The wife’s opinion in a healthy marriage carries weight.