“why do you seem so reluctant to even ask a shaila?? “
Is everything a shailah?
This entire discussion by Yeshivishe people of whether or not a woman can go outside the home is bordering on the questionable. If you beleive that the halacha is she cannot go out, then there should be no question of her going out to support her husband, because that is REALLY GOING OUT!!!!!! It exposes her to the outside world on a daily basis, possibly brings her into contact with non-Jews or males of Jewish or non-Jewish persuasion, and allows her to be influenced by the distasteful stuff that goes on on public transportation and in the street. Anyone who believes that women should ONLY be in the home, had better be prepared to put his money where is mouth is.
P.S. I personally believe a woman’s place IS in the home. I just see what happens to many kids when they are brought up by non-Jewish babysitters.
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