clearheaded,
Why don’t you humor us and ask the 2 shaalos that were suggested to you? I know you said you don’t think their necessary, but at the end of the day were all halachic Jews. You’re Rov isn’t gonna bite your head off or even laugh at you if you ask him
a. If a wife should always follow her husbands requests (that aren’t against halacha) and
b. If a woman should try to limit how much time she spends outside the home
So what do you have to lose by just asking? Its just a quick 3-4 minute phone call. Could you do us that favor and let us know?