Three points:
1: Saying Feminists all want men to be in the kitchen is like saying all Jews believe the Torah is man made, after all a segement of Reform does believe that. There is no monolithic community of Feminists (or Jews).
2: This is a problem with radical feminists in the outside world, but in the Torah world, it really doesn’t exist (with a few major execptions). I think it goes together with “liberalism”, which is what “Here or There” is really against, not “equal pay for women who work” type feminism. I believe most of us agree that “liberalism” is not the Torah MeHalech.
3: Moshe Rabbainu and Aharon HaKohen were “equal”. That does not mean they were the same, it means both of their inputs were required.