Reply To: Feminism Home › Forums › Controversial Topics › Feminism › Reply To: Feminism June 14, 2010 6:03 pm at 6:03 pm #1162710 oomisParticipant The Gedolim are also the ones who defined “ezer k’negdo” as meaning that sometimes in order to be an ezer, a wife must be neged her husband FOR HIS OWN GOOD.