Simcha613 -“I’m getting the vibe that people here would feel more sympathy for someone who is a mamzer than for someone who is gay.”
There’s nothing wrong with being a Mamzer. I believe most gays became that way. They weren’t born that way!
“Being gay is more than just a desire, but in the same way our spouses complete us in emotional and psychological ways, a gay person wants the same sort of emotional and psychological companionship.”
If what you’re saying has any truth to it – then the best thing to do – is Not to parade around, but to seek psychological help!