Sparkly – It has nothing to do with laziness and that certainly was not Happygirlygirl’s point. Someone who is lazy would not get married at 18 and have a bunch of kids instead of going to college!!! You have to be extremely unlazy and hard-working to get married at 18 and have a bunch of kids!! On the other hand, a lazy person might ostensibly decide to go to college instead of getting married and raising kids!!
Anyhow, they don’t go to college because there are hashkafa problems with going to college and because they think that mothers are supposed to take care of their kids instead of going out to work and leaving the kids with babysitters.
I was very offended by your post even though I’m not Chassidish. Why is it necessary to insult people who do things differently than you?