You and I live in different worlds gavra.
I’m surrounded by so many men,with large families, Who learn full time in Kollel. Whose faces glow with Kedushah. Tzadikim, big Talmeidei Chochomim, honest sweet generous men, menchim every one.
I don’t know a single one who does not learn with a fire and love. I know no one who just hides in the Kollel from working. They all Daven for parnassah. They don’t demand anything.
I am so very fortunate.
I suppose there are people that you describe gavra. I just never saw one.