DY – just another instance where support comes into play as a factor. I won’t guess as per Rav Shteinman’s cheshbonos, which I’m certain are valid based on the situation. However, hearing yet another story with the guy looking for support doesn’t help my frustration with the whole shidduch, divorce, dependency, and other issues that I have with our society as it is today.:-(
Also, it shows thr Rav’s Anivus, as opposed to the Amoraim who would respond “like me”!