Coffee Addict, sometimes people don’t follow all the posts and miss certain things that were said and as a result end up misunderstanding the context of some posts that were said in response to other posts. I know that you mean well, but I have been really hurt by some of your posts the past couple of days. I realize that your posts were coming out of a sincere interest to help and were a result of your misunderstanding certain posts, but I still was very hurt by it. It is very easy to inadvertently hurt someone when you make assumptions, and don’t pay attention to what people were responding to. I know that you are a sincere person who means well and would want to know if he hurt someone; that is why I am letting you know.
edited. Too much information about grievances against specific posters that leaves little room for doubt about whom you are speaking is a serious halachik issue