Sparkly – I realize that. That’s what upsets me so much when I see people dressed untzniusly. Often, they are davka really sweet, really nice girls and they have no idea that they are doing something cruel. Often they are the kind of people who are davka very into bein adam l’chaveiro and doing chesed and would never willingly do something to hurt another person. That is why it bothers me so much. I’m sure that if they realized what they are doing, they would not do it, so I think it so sad that they don’t realize!
If they were cruel people, it wouldn’t bother me as much – I would just say that they are reshayim and there is nothing to do about it. What bothers me is that they are nice people who would not be doing this if they realized what they are doing!