“the guys in college like me they wouldnt say that to me.”
Unless I read everything in this thread I would have difficulty understanding this sentence as it is constructed.
Is it saying, the guys in college, like me, wouldnt say that to me (meaning, other guys similar to you would never say such a thing)?
Is it saying, the guys in college like me, they wont say that to me. Leaving it up to other sentences to indicate whether the writer is male or female.
Either way, what I find disturbing is the following statement:
“but i have no problem with not jewish girls. i always make not jewish girl friends.”
The same way their are boundaries with members of the opposite gender, there are boundaries with non jews. For whatever reason you seem to disregard this. Perhaps it is because you have erected the appropriate boundaries? If you did not, it is just as important. Either way, I still maintain that the most appropriate means of learning appropriate boundaries with members of the opposite gender are through your parents, Rebbetzin, Rav etc. not the internet, as well meaning as people might be.