It is time for Truth – I know it’s a machlokes, but the fact is that there is an opinion that way and I don’t think there is a psak on it, so I think we should take it pretty seriously!!!
I also suspect that many/most people who aren’t shomer negiah end up being over on things that are definitely yaihareig v’al yaavor.
Thanks for supporting me on Yaihareig v’al yaavor being worse than chilul Shabbos. I wasn’t 100% sure of it – not enough to argue back – it just made sense to me.
And I did hear a certain Gadol (I forgot who) quoted as saying that tznius is more important than Shabbos