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Just a recap for the folks following along at home, it’s a bit hard to follow:
lilmod ulelamaid: “Not being tznius is also one of the biggest aveiros because you are sending to people to Gehinnom which is the greatest act of cruelty a person can perform.”
Sparkly: “i highly doubt people wear not tznius clothes to be cruel to others they just think their being pretty.”
Meno: “So they’re sending people to gehinnom inadvertently. That’s not so great either.”
Sparkly: “so your saying that by sometimes wearing shorter skirts im sending people to gehinom? i dont think so…”
lilmod ulelamaid: “Uh, Sparkly, hate to break it to you, I guess this is something you haven’t learned yet, but you are actually… When you cause people to do aveiros, you are sending them to gehenom. That’s the reason why people get so upset about girls dressing untzniusly! If it didn’t affect anyone else, people wouldn’t shrei about it so much since it would just be a personal decision.”
Meno: “Inadvertently, but that’s still not great”
Sparkly: “Meno – i shouldve added im sorry if you feel that way.”
lilmod ulelamaid: “Sparkly, it’s not a feeling – it’s the Halacha, and feelings don’t change the halacha.”
Sparkly: “lilmod ulelamaid – did i say that?”
lilmod ulelamaid: “Sparkly – did you say what?”