I didn’t really add anything here so I may as well
When i was 13 I wrote
Royalty is us princesses who are noble and fine
Ruby’s saphires and diamond
Each one can glow and shine
But only when put away can it be secure
The same is with us because we are so very pure
We must be modest and refined as can be
We are of better quality cause bas Melech ani
Would think poem is quite mediocre but the message is straight. Tznius is something you should do for yourself not because men might be oiver or look at you a certain way. A woman’s body is a beautiful because hashem created it with his own hands from the part of Adam that was hidden and said “tehai eesha tzneea”. The same way a beautiful sefer torah is covered up so too our body’s are like that.
HOWEVER!!!!!!!!!
I was in the supermarket and saw these two guys standing there and looking at frum erlicha tzniusdiga girls and rating them…those gurls were even nerdy looking and yet there will always be guys out there that are bored and i dont think that those girls would “go to gehinom” for attracting boys attention. I have to say maybe we should teach the boys not to view women as objects for pleasure.
And let’s not forget men have tznius rules as well.it isn’t just in the garment it’s your whole being.