LU every time I read your post I get angrier. Let me first say that I’ve asked a girl to travel only twice and I hated it. nevertheless the assumptions you make on your post are just not true.
Here is the reasoning you gave: 1. Men are from Mars agrees with what you said 2. a rav told your friend what you said 3. Guys are asking girls to travel to their place because they don’t value them enough.
I don’t need to answer 1 and 2. As for 3, here’s a scenerio for you. It’s busy time at college. I’ve travelled to the girl’s place on the first three dates, Therefore I missed 3 days of studies. I have tons of homework. So I ask the girl to travel. Does that mean my attitude is “there are so many girls to date, I don’t need to travel in order to date.”
The thing is, guys avoid dating girls who live out of town. They avoid dating during exam saeason. They scedule one date a week. This is what they actually do when it’s impossible for them to spend whole days on the road. It’s not so bad if the girls made it easier on them from time to time.