It’s a bit more complicated than that. On this topic from the website ‘revach’ (which is operated by big talmidei chachamim):
“Today, says the Tzitz Eliezer (and Rav Vosner ybc”l concurs), in a situation where you’d like to be respectful and courteous, you need not refrain from doing so because of this gemara, and we can rely on the Trumas HaDeshen.”