Joseph…………
Please do not put words in my mouth.
Nowhere do I post that diamonds are required for an engagement. The fact that it is our family tradition is certainly not binding on others.
As for the deception, it is not between the giver and recipient that concerns me, it is the assumed false representation to the world that presents a problem.
I could no more see my wife or daughters wear a CZ than fake designer handbags or clothing, it’s not what we do.
These are all personal feelings, they are not to say that use and wearing of CZ or other faux diamond rings is acceptable to others. I have written buy what you can afford. You should also buy what you feel comfortable owning and wearing.