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Many people see things differently and alter their views based upon experience. But with time and support, the night terrors should diminish. Many people were affected the same way as you describe.
PTSD and depression sufferers both claim that those who have never experienced either usually tell them to “get over it.”
But you are in a MUCH better position now that you know differently to help those who are both suffering and those who don’t get it but mean well.
May I ask if you were there in person?
May you have hatzlacha in all your endeavors.