limud, let’s even put dating aside, since your (and gaw’s) response to the question I posed to apy related to allowing women first on dates. Let me ask you about in general.
Do you have a logical explanation for why one way is better than the other, i.e. going first or who opens the door for the other, in life in general? IOW, when you pass a stranger of the opposite gender, do you think the gender should play a role as to who goes first or who opens the door?